Cite this asTallo MO, Calvo I (2020) Child sexual abuse: Listening to the victims. Arch Community Med Public Health 6(2): 135-137. DOI: 10.17352/2455-5479.000092
Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) is a global public health concern. We present real testimonies of adults recalling their childhood, clinical reflections and scientific research data. Patients’ testimonies bring professionals closer to understanding their painful reality. All testimonies are from women who gave their consent to use their statement. Doctors and health professionals need to know this reality and be prepared to prevent and cope with abuse.
“He was an evil spirit disguised as a golden boy, a Harry Potter Dementor. Charming, witty, handsome, intelligent, cruel, manipulative, evil and perverted. He robbed me of my childhood and innocence, my peace of mind and my security. In return he left me an infinite sadness, a feeling of deep despair, and truly awful flashbacks which continued to haunt me as an adult. He was my father.”
Child sexual abuse (CSA) is a serious type of children maltreatment and is classified as violence even if the abuser does not physically harm the child. CSA should be considered a global public health concern. Public health aims to provide maximum benefit for the largest number of adults and children and reducing violence and its consequences is one of its priorities.
The World Health Organization (WHO) defines CSA as the “involvement of a child in sexual activity that he or she does not fully comprehend, is unable to give informed consent to, or for which the child is not developmentally prepared and cannot give consent, or that violates the laws or social taboos of society” . UNICEF estimates that 120 million children are or have been abused during their childhood .
“I was five years old when I told my mum. She didn’t want to believe me because it implied confronting her family and that was too much for her, so she looked the other way whilst my uncle abused me and I sank into a deep depression for years.”
The abuse is usually perpetrated by someone close to the child, someone they trust. Studies indicate that abusers are often people from the victims´ surroundings: friends of the family, educators or family members . All the reviewed studies agree that perpetrators are mostly male, and victims are more often, but not exclusively, female .
“I was eight, I voiced it in a family reunion in front of my mum, grandma, aunties, cousins… no one did anything. It’s a complex subject, no one stood by us. It was something that also used to happen to my cousin and one of my sisters, with the same person; my grandpa. No one reacted; many years have passed before I’ve been able to talk about this.”
Putnam , found a mean age of nine years old for the first episode. The majority of researchers reported that sexual abuse is most prevalent between the ages of six and thirteen. CSA is steeped in a culture of secrecy and silence .
”All my life I’ve felt guilty for what happened. I always thought I allowed it to happen back then. Now, at 40 and after much therapy, I’ve been able to comprehend that I am not to blame.”
“My silence lasted many years. It was really tough to keep that experience to myself. When I finally managed to speak with someone about it I felt relief and realised it wasn’t my fault.”
It is very difficult for children to reveal what’s happening to them. Very often this is because they feel they are to blame . A clear pattern of abuse can be seen in practice: confidence, trust, secrecy, guilt and silence. Furthermore, abuse does not tend to be an isolated incident; it tends to be a behaviour maintained throughout extended periods of time, often until late adolescence .
“I’ve spent all my life with anxiety, depression and eating disorders”
“I’ve had serious sexual issues with my partner”.
“I tend to be attracted to problematic men and have been in two abusing relationships as an adult”
“I’ve always been ill and visiting doctors with many different issues”.
CSA can lead to serious consequences throughout the lives of victims. The consequences could be immediate and long-term. These include physical injury, sexually transmitted infections, emotional trauma, personality disorders, anxiety, depression and somatoforms disorders [6,7].
Many victims present severe physical symptoms during their lives. Many times it is the body which asks for help through illness. So medical and psychology professionals must be prepared to detect and support victims of CSA. Doctors and therapist in general may have the opportunity to detect sexual abuse in minors and also to appreciate the consequences for adults of sexual abuse in their childhood [1,8].
“When I was nine, I told my aunt but she said nothing. I never spoke about it again until I was 30. During therapy, as an adult, I’ve learnt that my aunt and mother were also abused by the same family member”.
Sexual violence can be perpetuated from one generation to another, being reported to therapists in clinical contexts. This trauma is frequently transmitted through generations with the secrets somatized in the victim’s body . Dissociative amnesia and difficulty recognising the signs of abuse lead to women with a previous case of CSA not realising the possibility that their children could be abused too, sometimes even leaving them in the care of the perpetrator. Early trauma produces neuronal , structural  and functional alterations within the brain, leading to a deficit in mentalization capabilities .
CSA is a type of maltreatment that produces physical and psychological effects. The victims are most often girls and perpetrators are mostly male, frequently from the victims´ surroundings. Guilt and secrecy accompany the victims for years and when they share their secret, adults are sometimes not prepared to face what they hear from children sexually abused.
The medical and psychology professionals’ experiences show that it is of the utmost importance for society to have cognisance of this act of maltreatment and shine a light on it.
Adults and children need to be prepared and informed . In particular doctors, health professionals in general, educators, and law enforcement professionals (lawyers, prosecutors and judges) must be prepared to properly deal with this type of maltreatment. If professionals are not well trained to detect, report and/or prevent child abuse, then minors will have no protection. It is the professional’s responsibility to be trained and to prepare everyone surrounding the victim to help them deal with such a difficult experience. Training professionals and educators, information to children and families, are essentials to move forward and provide resources to reduce child sexual abuse.
Our team works with children to prevent abuse. We develop resources using creative techniques to reach minors (and adults) through their emotions: theatre, puppets and cartoons. We also conduct research and training. We encourage professionals to be prepared to face CSA.
Finally, considering abuser’s prevention Sex Offender Therapy Programs would be another important and complementary way to prevent CSA .
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